What Should I Ask A Nanny When I Interview Them?

What Should I Ask A Nanny When I Interview Them?

The professionals at TLC Family Care have interviewed thousands of nannies as we have helped families hire trusted nannies for over 40 years. The right interview questions reveal not just skills, but heart, values, and approach to care. It is a chance to really get to know each other. 

An interview goes beyond verifying experience — it’s your chance to learn how a nanny thinks, solves problems, and connects with children. To ensure a successful experience, TLC recommends using a combination of practical, values-driven, and situational questions to gain a comprehensive understanding.

Core Values & Compatibility:

• What do you enjoy most about working with children?
• How do you see your role in a family — more like a teacher, a guide, or a partner to parents?
• How do you handle differences in parenting styles?

Experience & Professionalism:

• Tell me about your longest nanny position. Why did it work well?
• What is your experience with children the same ages as mine?
• How do you stay current on childcare practices and safety?

Responsibility & Reliability:

• How do you manage your time during the day with multiple responsibilities?
• What steps do you take to ensure safety during outings?
• How do you communicate if you’re running late or if something goes wrong?

Energy & Engagement:

• How do you structure a full day with a toddler?
• What activities do you plan for indoor vs. outdoor play?
• How do you handle days when children are restless or bored?

Situational “What Would You Do If…?”

• A child refuses to nap — what’s your approach?
• The children argue over a toy — how do you resolve it?
• You notice the child is unwell — what steps do you take?
• A parent gives you instructions you don’t fully agree with — how do you handle it?

TLC Tip: Listen for specific examples rather than general answers. A great candidate won’t just say “I keep kids safe,” they’ll share exactly how they handled a tough moment in the past. Consistency, patience, and professionalism should shine through in every response.