Helping Kids Get Ready for a New Babysitter

August 18, 2025

Helping Kids Get Ready for a New Babysitter

Kids thrive on familiarity, so meeting a new sitter can be a big adjustment. A little preparation can turn it into something they look forward to. TLC sitters love arriving to a “success plan” — it makes the start of the evening smoother for everyone.

Talk About the Sitter Ahead of Time

  • Use positive language when introducing the sitter: “You get to play games with Jamie tonight!” 
  • Show a picture of the sitter if you have one. Kids feel more comfortable when they recognize a friendly face. 
  • Explain what will happen step-by-step: “We’ll have dinner, play a game, read stories, and then I’ll be home.” 

Set the Stage for Fun

  • Have favorite activities ready: puzzles, board games, coloring supplies, or LEGOs. 
  • Include a special project: baking cookies, doing a craft, or making a fort. 
  • Prepare comfort items: stuffed animals, cozy blankets, or the exact bedtime book your child prefers. 

Give the Sitter “Success Tools”

  • Share quick-win activities to break the ice: a dance party, drawing together, or a scavenger hunt around the house. 
  • Provide guidance for calming techniques if your child feels nervous: a special song, a hug with a blanket, or turning on a nightlight. 
  • Let the sitter know what behaviors to praise — positive reinforcement helps keep the night upbeat. 

TLC Tip: When children see you confidently greet the sitter, share the evening’s plan, and step away cheerfully, they’ll feel reassured and more willing to engage.